{"id":112953,"date":"2021-02-22T10:20:16","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T03:20:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/?p=112953"},"modified":"2021-02-22T10:20:16","modified_gmt":"2021-02-22T03:20:16","slug":"vuot-qua-cam-giac-that-nghiep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/vuot-qua-cam-giac-that-nghiep-112953","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng khi m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"toc_container\" class=\"toc_transparent no_bullets\"><p class=\"toc_title\">N\u1ed9i dung ch&iacute;nh<\/p><ul class=\"toc_list\"><li><a href=\"#Tiep_can_ban_be_cu\">Ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u0169<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Kiem_tra_quan_niem_han_hep_cua_ban\">Ki\u1ec3m tra quan ni\u1ec7m h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Tham_gia_vao_cac_hoat_dong_rong_hon\">Tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Hinh_dung_ve_tuong_lai\">H\u00ecnh dung v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Xac_dinh_gia_tri_cot_loi_cua_ban\">X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#Nhan_tro_giup\">Nh\u1eadn tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n<p>M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 xem c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 sinh m\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ec1n l\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. N\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 th\u00eam kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fac l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi danh t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, th\u00ec d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do l\u1ed7i n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n &#8211; ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 do suy tho\u00e1i kinh t\u1ebf hay t\u00e1i c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u \u2013 n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda, g\u00e2y n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng hi\u1ec7n sinh ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 quy\u1ec3n &#8220;Difficult Conversations&#8221; g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 &#8220;ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 danh t\u00ednh&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n nghi ng\u1edd s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 v\u00e0i c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u2013 v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i \u2013 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-112954 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng khi m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec-390x260.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec-282x188.jpg 282w, https:\/\/www.vntrip.vn\/cam-nang\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mat-viec-102x68.jpg 102w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd nghi ng\u1edd s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\u00a0\u1ea2nh: Pixabay.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Tiep_can_ban_be_cu\">Ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u0169<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. Ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn gi\u1eef li\u00ean l\u1ea1c, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf ho\u1eb7c l\u00fac h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t. H\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u1edf b\u1ea1n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p to l\u1edbn sau n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3. Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n, ngo\u00e0i danh t\u00ednh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trung th\u00e0nh, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0 duy s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Kiem_tra_quan_niem_han_hep_cua_ban\">Ki\u1ec3m tra quan ni\u1ec7m h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>B\u1ea3n s\u1eafc v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ea5u tinh th\u1ea7n. Khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y b\u1ebf t\u1eafc, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n qua g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn ri\u00eang, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n &#8211; v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eb1m th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c ki\u1ec3m tra quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd hai c\u00e2u. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean: &#8220;B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u1edf t\u00f4i?&#8221; \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n. Th\u1ee9 hai: &#8220;C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi?&#8221; \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 cho b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap n\u1edbi l\u1ecfng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 &#8220;Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n qua th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 lao \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Tham_gia_vao_cac_hoat_dong_rong_hon\">Tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Neil Talkoff, Nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc \u1edf San Francisco (M\u1ef9), cho bi\u1ebft &#8220;khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecf qua c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u01a1i v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch&#8221;. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, s\u1edf th\u00edch, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u1eddi gian, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi, b\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eafp nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ngu\u1ed3n kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd \u0111a d\u1ea1ng h\u00f3a c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh danh t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Hinh_dung_ve_tuong_lai\">H\u00ecnh dung v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Danh t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo th\u1eddi gian. \u00cdt ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t 10 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c, n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh danh t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh danh t\u00ednh v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, &#8220;T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ai trong 5 \u0111\u1ebfn 10 n\u0103m t\u1edbi?&#8221; B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u2013 t\u1ee9c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chuy\u1ec3n h\u00e0nh vi theo h\u01b0\u1edbng mong mu\u1ed1n. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"Xac_dinh_gia_tri_cot_loi_cua_ban\">X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh trong danh t\u00ednh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 coi tr\u1ecdng \u2013 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, hay ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ch\u00fang v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua danh t\u00ednh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n trong nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u0103ng k\u00ednh kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. 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